The Natural Human Experience of Grief and Loss
We all experience loss. You are not alone. Grief may feel like agony. Engaging in grief therapy is transformational. Grief is deeply personal and unique to work with.
Throughout life, we experience death losses and non-death losses. We may grieve the death of our loved ones and beloved pets. We also grieve non-death loss, including breakups, divorces, friendships, children moving on, not having children, as well as illness, job loss, career dissatisfaction, aging, inabilities, natural disasters, traumatic experiences, etc. During grief therapy, we will process emotions such as guilt, regret, anger, disbelief, unfairness, numbness, and, at times, relief. Grief therapy compassionately challenges maladaptive thoughts, patterns, and behaviors, and explores our purpose and life’s meaning. We will also address many questions, including: “Who am I now?”; “Why am I here?”; “What should I do next?”; “What do I need?”; “Did I live well today?”
Our goal is to support you in enhancing your quality of living well and sense of thriving as you navigate life transitions by leveraging your strengths and effective coping skills, resulting in improved well-being and a profound sense of hope. You will learn how grief theories can help during this challenging time of loss, especially when saying “I am fine” is often a lie.
Psychological, emotional, and physical symptoms of loss need to be normalized and treated with an evidence-based grief approach. Clinical and community care suggest we learn about human experiences, such as grief and loss, which somatically and psychosomatically affect our bodies.
Thank you for seeking help during this difficult time. I will be honored to walk beside you on your grief and loss journey.
Resources:
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Association for Death Education and Counseling adec.org
American Hospice Foundation: americanhospice.org
Center for Grief Recovery -Chicago
Cancer Wellness Center 847 509 9595
ModernLoss.com
The Agrace Grief Support Center Agrace Services | Find Care | Care for Yourself or Your Loved One(608) 327-7110
Catholic charities - email: counselingintake@catholiccharities.net offers counseling Intake (312) 655-7725
Gilda’s Club Chicago 312 464 9900 (Cancer support)
Crisis Hotline Info: Family Anonymous (Addiction Recovery): 1800 736 98 05
Al-Anon Family Groups (Addiction/Recovery): 1888 425 2666
Post-Partum Depression 1800 944 4773
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National Alliance for Grieving Children: childrengrieve.org, NACG
Coalition to support Grieving Students: grievingstudents.org
AChildInGrief.com
Dougy.org
Scholastic.com/childrenandgrief
SharedGrief.org
WhatsYourGrief.com
Willow House (for adults and children): info@willowhouse.org 847 236 9300
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Grief Guide Lisa Orris About - Grief Guide
https://mygrief.ca/ (Canadian resource and reading materials
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Parents: Resolve Through Sharing: Support group (miscarriage or stillbirth)
Support families after a child’s death: https://www.compassionatefriends.org
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LOSS - Loving Outreach to Survivors of Suicide - Catholic Charities of the Archdiocese of Chicago
Erika’s Lighthouse (support for families whose loved one died of suicide) http://www.erikaslighthouse.org/
Suicide hotline: 988
American Foundation for Suicide Prevention: www.afsp.org
Our Side of Suicide Blog: oursideofsuicide.com
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Joyful Again Grief Group
Widows Support Widows Chicagoland (not for early bereaved
Grief Share www.griefshare.org
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1. You have the right to experience your own unique grief.
2. You have the right to talk about your grief.
3. You have the right to feel a multitude of emotions.
4. You have the right to be tolerant of your physical and emotional limits.
5. You have the right to experience “griefbursts”.
6. You have the right to make use of ritual.
7. You have the right to embrace your spirituality.
8. You have the right to search for meaning.
9. You have the right to treasure your memories.
10. You have the right to move toward our grief and heal.
“Nature is the kind of friend that never leaves my side. Even in grief-stricken times in her soul, I can confide.” - Angie Weiland-Crosby